Yes, we all were told as a child that masturbation is bad or sinful but it is a wonderful way to giving pleasure to your body.
Trust me or not, there’s nothing wrong with masturbation. Everyone does it. And why not? It is the safest and healthiest form of sex. You have no risk of getting pregnant, no risk of disease and you’ll have an orgasm.
It is true that most of the women do not orgasm vaginally. They can enjoy it through clitoral stimulation. Moreover to be fully satisfied in bed, you need to understand your own body. Every woman is different. In addition to small differences in anatomy, there are big differences in the ways women need to be touched. When it comes to understanding your body fully, there’s no substitute for masturbation.
Do you know there are other benefits of achieving orgasm whether you do it through sex or masturbation? It can make woman feel several years younger. Orgasms build up your immune system. It makes you feel strong and self-assured and help you send off pheromones that attract the opposite sex.
Explore these amazing ways to masturbate:
- Masturbate when you’re alone: it is hard for women to masturbate when there is someone else in the house. The fear of being too loud or being caught can stop woman from enjoying those little ‘guilty pleasures’.
So whenever you find you are alone at house, no matter whether you are in a mood or not, try masturbating. It will help you find out what it takes to get you in the mood!
- Wet your finger: When you ready for the act, start by licking your finger. Licking your finger before clitoral stimulation is probably the closet you’ll get to the feelings of oral sex through self-pleasure. Moreover, the wetness touching your clit stimulates you to get even wetter.
Yes, a little lubrication is needed so why not take the advantage of nature’s handiest and most natural lube? So, get all your fingers wet and slippery before you start touching yourself. It will certainly enhance the speed and strength of your orgasm in an easy way.
- Try it in shower: Detachable shower head has become one of the greatest sexual pleasures. Set the water to your preferred warmth and then revolve its shower head. Now place it close to the clit. Allow water to play against your clitoris and enjoy. As you started enjoying, move the shower head a little closer and then pull it back. You’ll notice that difference in distance provides amazing effect on your stimulation.
- Watch or Read Porn: If you love reading or watching porn, you can enjoy the act of masturbation in a much better way. But if you are new to masturbation or porn, you may have little trouble in finding out what’s your tastes are in this area. But at least you can give it a try. Sometimes even the sound of sex on porn can arouse woman.
If you are new to masturbation and are not in a mood, porn is a great way to feel like you’re not the only naked person the room. This can turn out to be a lot more comforting than it sounds.
- Use heat and cold: When you are in the shower, you can always change the water temperature to heat up the things. Instead of using your normal temperature, use cold water against your clitoris and watch out your reaction. During the masturbation act, you can rub ice cube to have some fabulous ‘numbing’ effect.
Heat can be pleasurable too. Pick up some heating effect lube or sex oil and rub it on your vibrator. This oil is easily available in any sex shop. Now insert the vibrator inside the vagina and see what really happens. The friction between the vibrator and your clit makes the oil heat up and makes your orgasm out of this world.
- Use both hands: Allow both hands to please you. Let one hand play with your clitoris while the other one explore your other parts of body. Grab your breasts and squeeze your nipples for more sexual pleasures. Caress your whole body. Let your fingers run up and down all over your body in a slow motion. Do not forget to touch your neck and side area of face in gentle way to enhance the pleasure. Immerse yourself in your own beautiful sensuality.
- Don’t just lie there: For most of us, lying flat in the missionary position is the best way to masturbate. Not just it’s convenient when sex toys are involved, but also you can easily scream in pleasure in this position.
But once in a while, you can try new positions too. You would be surprised to know that masturbating in a doggy style can really give you ‘big O’. It is a great practice for giving yourself clitoral stimulation when you and your man are in this position and when you’re not getting the full pleasure from it.
You can masturbate anywhere you wish to have sex with your partner. Fulfilling your own fantasies can be really appealing. Think it as a ‘testing it out’. You can try masturbating on floors, chair, and stairs… whatever suits you which you would later like to enjoy with your partner in the real act.
- Try it with a toy: Yes, fingers are great, but why not treat your clitoris with some sex toys too such as dildos and vibrators to multiply the sexual pleasure. Moreover, you can use these toys while masturbating with your partner too. Allow your partner to watch the act as this will give him outstanding visual stimulation and also teach him how to touch you.
If you thinking about what kind of vibrator you should choose, read out several articles about choosing the right vibrator on the internet. Trust me; the right kind of sex toy can wonderfully enhance your masturbation experience.
When you let the vibrator touch your clit, you’ll find a different type of stimulation which you have never ever experienced. Play around and test it which you prefer. Explore other toys too. Once you become experienced, you can be little more adventurous with sex toys like anal beads etc while masturbating.
If you are too shy to ask your partner about back door stimulation, try out great clitoral toys especially meant for this. You’ll find range of sex toys at online sex toy shop or at local sex store.
- Go slowly and then build up: There’s no hurry to speed up your masturbation act. Be slow and gentle in beginning to enjoy it fully.
Lick your finger and then use the tip of your finger to make soft slow circles on the hood of your clitoris. Try different tings with your clit. Move your finger up and down and do not forget to slide your finger in and out in your vagina during masturbation. Flick your clit from side to side or try pinching it gently between your fingers. Apply different amount of speeds and pressure while masturbating to enhance the pleasure of an orgasm.
Let your body decide what it likes and what not. If you don’t like anything, switch on to something else. You’re the one in control, so don’t force or pressurize yourself to something that you don’t like. It’s all about pleasure, after all. This way you’ll learn where you like to be touched and how you like to be touched.
- Don’t force the ‘O’: If you fail to enjoy an orgasm while masturbating, do not fret at all. There are times when you are not going to get what you need. Sometimes you are too stressed and sometimes you do not find right kind of stimulation…. And the list goes on.
If you are not able to get an orgasm, do not push it hard. Forcing it will only make you more frustrated and make it more difficult for you to achieve an orgasm next time.
Believe it or not, you are your best lover. And to be your best lover, you have to love yourself. Love your body and enjoy playing with it. Masturbation can provide lots of pleasure and new confidence in you!
